This angered him a lot, and he told me he wants to go separate ways. Sometimes we can see each other if he passed by in the same place that he knows that I always stay. We had a great relationship though we would sometimes argue here and there as one of us would pick up on stupid things but we were always there for eachother in the end. When he's vulnerable he's risking giving up his freedom to do what or whoever the hell he wants. I honestly can’t think of any woman sticking around with him for a long-term relationship. Am I losing him? Usually there’s a deeper meaning than “I just don’t have feelings for you anymore.”. He knows I'm a relationship, he respected it and wished me the best. I doubt that he will ever return. We hung up shortly. I fell madly in love with this guy – like no other in my life ever! After that I decided I was going to cut off all ties with him because it was too much of a stuff around. Get a life and move on! But he is telling me, we are not each other’s type. When you get hurt, do not re-act, but act. always love yourself to the fullest and never make no one bring you down. He didn’t try to romance other date you. he also bought me about $500 in snowmobile gear and been hard at work fixing up one of his sleds for me to learn how to ride on! Though i made Daxson beg, i had to let him into my life and that of April again because that was all i ever wanted. He made it seem like he was better than me and I was so sad that 3 years of being in love with someone would turn to this. Thing is I never really let go of my feelings for him and I tried to move on. Good luck:). He is tired of being unhappy with the relationship and wants to be single and be his own person. . I gave him my all and I still care about him. Now when we first started talking, he asked me if I’m into hookups or a relationship type of person. Please what should I do please help is there a chance for us. we are both 20. What do I do? Lately, it really got into my nerves for his failed promise to stop soccer betting. They hung out and he still claims they are just friend and being there for each other. I didnt agree with him, so the relationship ended in an argument. Why are you losing your time with such a stupid man? It sounds like he is running hot and cold. Good work enthic and morals and values. Did i mention he took nothing not a thing nothing. He messaged me on the 5th of December & said maybe its best if we aren’t friends & he’s out of my life because it only upsets me & I won’t move on with him around. I too have an adult (25) disabled child (MS). The last conversation we had with each other was actually civil, about what I said in a long voicemail after I came back into town from a trip to New York. He is showing mixed signals like he is always drunk, he goes home late and He is showing deaperate figures (our common friend told me) on our first week of break up he told me that we were cool off he hust needed some space. He was the one who always initiated all of our”seriousness talks”… if anything, i followed his lead and tapped the brakes occasionally…can ANYONE please offer any insight into wtf just happened to all my dreams?? He just want me as a friend. He met me and told me all this and was thinking of moving to his country to go back to school. They find out the grass is not greener and then start trying to run back. We had a great weekend but he wouldn’t cut contact with her and it went downhill that following week until the Friday packing. Not one who listens to every stupid thing other people say. This information should not be considered complete, up to date, and is not intended to be used in place of a visit, consultation, or advice of a legal, medical, or any other . He told me he’ d cum inside me several times already and if I got pregnant that would be up to God and something we would deal with together. I think that he’ll get over me with the help of the new girl but everyone says that he’ll be back because he always comes back. No man will match his now because he’s not a real person. But he will see what happens down the road. I’ve finally backed off. I was dating and then engaged to someone for 7 years. Remember the reality was this guy used to try a 3am booty calls on you. He phoned me on a Sunday evening, crying, to tell me that he took the plunge. I go to the gym now and I have a better attitude and I’ve surrounded myself with good people. Was there another woman on the picture? Today he unfriended me on Facebook and blocked me on Instagram. Then he just came home one night and broke up with me, he said it is because he loves me but he is not inlove with me and does not see me in his future. Also no one deserves to be dumped out of the blue. The next day he texts me and says he made a mistake and he wants me back. Why does he take me for granted? Is he manipulating me again (though I do not think that he was aware of it, I do think that for a lot of the relationship, he did do this, but then, I am no victim, I allowed him to do so, eventhough at the time I was also not aware of this. I left something personal at his house. I felt as though things were going great and our connections was good. In my case it was disaster. I would also like some advice. Because it is not always about us. But I still remain reserved with my feelings. I havent seen him in about 3-4 months and I know he only recently moved. If you are one man girl, then he MUST be a one girl man. We knew it was stupid so we would always blow it over because our love for one another was stronger than the little incidents. The no contact period is definitely helping – for me at least. About three weeks after we start having sex he asked me want I wanted and what was holding me back from fully letting myself go with him. I remember this girl I had, we had previously broke up, because I didn’t have a good relationship with her best [female] friend, her friend has no other friends, thus, it was annoying for her when I want to spend time with my ex. Do you want to see me ? If he really wants to be with you, he’ll make it happen. Also that he needed time to find himself. He hasn’t tried making contact during this time but I still want to reach out. Shortly, before our wedding anniversary he tells me he is unhappy with our marriage. It is like repairing a worn out pair of shoes over and over again. I was devastated and I still am, I showed up at his house to talk and he hugged me and kept saying it’s just a break. I will never forget the help the Prophet Iyare render to me in my marital life. He said he loves me and misses me bit thinks is what’s best. And yesterday chatting on fb again … he said that he would really like to see me,.. that he wants to go to the beach and he asked me to go with him. Girls, A guy who totally ignores / neglects you is better? Hope you are having a good weekend. A man’s duty is to help provide, support and care for you. Thank you, Amy. Yes, do not contact him and follow the no contact rules. My ex has said that he knows exactly what he wants now and has had those months to think about everything, and he loves me and wants to be with me. Now ever since the beginning of this year, 2016, he is being so very nice to me, reminiscing about old times, engaging me in conversation, actually listening and remembering what I had to say. He is also sort of confused with his life (career, r/s and etc.). When he's vulnerable he's risking giving up his freedom to do what or whoever the hell he wants. Move on. What do you think? A narcissist will always return to an ex-lover to ensure that his narcissistic supply still pines for him and that she never moves on from the pain he has caused her. This all happened via text message, but it felt like the break up all over again. Anyway listen to uplifting music and work on making yourself happy. Hold your head up. If they are single or in bad relationships he will soon stop listening to what they have to say He will start to value what the people he loves says, and the influence of his parents and family will start to make him change his mind. This is true as I have been staying between my home and his the past 9 months. I wish he did it in person. Cut your losses and don’t spend any more time. We have been together for 3 years since and its getting to the point where he wants to propose soon, but I just cant wrap my head around what happened 3 years ago that lead to that. He would have told you if he had feelings for you. I am doing exactly what you said and just kind of going with the flow, not giving my trust 100% as yet. Don’t do it. Trust your gut instinct.. Will he come back around when the timing is right for him? He felt horrible and said he loves me and he’s Gona talk to his dad and figure things out and he needs to just figure it out. He probably misses you but he’s a cheater. I am sure you are not a teenager in high school. He said it wasn’t as simple as getting back together so if I feel we need to stay out of each others lives then he will have to deal with it. The one you deserve.” And I started wailing as he walked out I fell to the ground screaming in agony for him to come back. Well once the show was over he was at my house every day. Why would someone do that? Taking someone back after they broke up with you for someone else is like reloading the gun and giving it back to him to shoot you in the back once more. I asked him if he stopped loving me, but he says he doesn’t and then when the conversation keep going he told me that he thought I would get tired of him because he depends so much on me and he has no other person he can thrust…, I said him I wouldn’t and that I wanted him in my life even through this hard times, but he had that idea deep in his mind… that he needed to finish everything… we were both crying at that point… but then…. Literally and sexually (he and I have both admitted to having the best physical experiences with the other) . At the end of the phone call I suggested we have a break & try once more, then if it didn’t work we part ways but he said its over for good. We ended in good terms and he knows I love him. Experts don't exactly know why. Is he letting go? On our first date he asked me where I saw myself in five years I told him hopefully married with a child. I stared at him for a couple minutes and then asked him what are we doing if he never wants to get married. We were arguing and he left and went to his moms. Hi Amy, There is no reason or excuse for his behavior. Is he looking around for other girls and just keeping you open as an option? I would like to tell you my story. Anyway I want to know if he will be back. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc. What should I do? My boyfriend and l are both in our late fifties.. We met on dating site..we date close to 8 mos. He texted me saying he wanted to break up because he didnt like me being friends with a guy. Guys would rather go back to their comfort zone (you) before starting all over again. So we both cheated which led to trust issues. I really need to know what his deal with me is? I told him we ought to cut contact as I can’t have somebody in my life who doesn’t care whether they are in it or not & he insisted on being friends, so I agreed as long as he’s in it for good & he said yes. I don’t know what to do about it. But we were completely fine and all the sudden he asked me for a break. I try to be optimistic, and thought if he wasn’t then he wouldn’t have responded to my message a few days ago. Or should I give him his space until he sorts everything out? The last time was about the feet. He says he wants to be with me, but he is still married but separated from his wife. During the time we broke up, I started to like another girl and I was [really interested] in her, then, one of those days, I was talking with my ex, we had a nice conversation like we were just friends, through that, I mentioned that I liked this other girl. He’d do that a couple times in a row. ysts are large pimples under the skin that are like balloons attached to your oil glands,” says Dr. Zeichner. I have a lot of time, effort and money into the relationship and it’s been a month and three weeks today but I’m still in love. But then he even let me put my clothes back into “my drawer” at his house, and when I went there he still had the photo of us up on his night stand. I said “all I can think about is sex & ice cream” he said “OMG, I just told my friend the exact same thing yesterday” (we never eat ice cream). Well, he is 24 and I am 27. He then had to go to England for 2 months for work. Does he have a job? He may even have someone else. Hi Britt, You have done the right thing. So, if you're in a bad mood, your dog can sense that through licking and help you feel better. no calls. Seems like he must make up his mind or he will repeat the same routine. That’s not really fair or very grown up. This happened last week. YOU create the program. He knows what i’ve always been wanting and he ever did mention that he can’t provide me anything better than what he has and might be better for him to leave him. It guarantees purging yourself of him and only if hes the right one will he return. What should i do? He also would prefer to rent (and he depends on his paycheck to help him pay his rent) instead of saving money for a house of his own. So……. I asked him if we were over forever & he said he didn’t know. I did all those things for my ex husband and he still cheated, several times! Fight as hard as you can to keep your new man FAR AWAY from your ex. Good luck. At the time i meant him ,it was not a while before the relationship became serious cos i bet he loved me also. He said he was on the same page as I am. Everyone Needs An Easy (Acne) Win: Do Yourself A Favor And Get This Pimple Patch, How to Treat Maskne When You Have Darker Skin. 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